I spent a mostly pretty lazy three days with Basilia's family in Guajiquiro. The first day the main event was me taking five of our nieces and nephews, ages 4, 5, 7, 8, and 9, on a three-hour hike to a place called Tres Piedras. The destination was Basilia's idea. I was a little daunted at the thought of being the only adult overseeing all these little kids on a fairly long walk in the mountains. But in typical don't-worry Guajiquiro fashion, Basilia said go for it, you'll all be fine. And we were. Honduran rural kids are amazing in their casual bravado. I think all kids are naturally this way, but in our culture we surround kids with a bubble of protection that purportedly keeps all sorts of dangers at bay. In the process, I think we kill something vital in our children. It was so refreshing to just wander the countryside with this gang of little kids and watch them push themselves to their own limits. Nothing bad happened, and no one even cried. Tres Piedras is a fantastic set of rock formations that would easily earn state or national park status in the States. So cool that it's just a day hike from Basilia's parents' front door.
Saturday was my birthday, and the family threw me a big party. There was a piñata made by our nieces Lourdes and Edy, lots of good food, a live acoustic band and DJ music for dancing courtesy of our brother-in-law Melvin. Many people I've known since my Peace Corps days in the 1990s showed up to dance and wish me well. As usual at Guajiquiro parties a few young men got obnoxiously drunk, but unlike at many other parties I've attended, there were no fights this time. We had a terrific time dancing and people-watching.
Basilia dancing with her father at my birthday party
Sunday was taking care of business day. Basi and I met with the family of one of our nephews whom we've offered to help financially to go to medical school, I worked with a friend of ours to draw up a contract for a piece of land she's selling us just outside town, and we even provided some impromptu relationship counseling for a couple we're hoping to see stick together as they go through some difficult times. Even though I didn't go more than a few blocks from the house all day, I felt exhausted by nightfall.
Yesterday was a classic test of our patience in traveling around Central America. We tried to travel back to Honduras using the same Marcala-San Miguel bus line I'd used a few days earlier, but after a couple hours in Marcala it became apparent the bus was not on its normal schedule. Probably a victim of the tropical storm that had been soaking both countries the last couple days. We eventually decided to go to plan B, which was catching a bus to Tegucigalpa and spending the night there, then taking the Tegucigalpa-San Salvador direct bus this morning. Our niece Celenia has accompanied us back to El Salvador to help us pack up for our return to California day after tomorrow.
It's been fun keeping this blog as an alternative to the hand-written diaries I used to keep when traveling. I don't have specific plans about whether to continue it once back in the U.S. -- I'll get back to you on that. It may depend on how actively my working relationship with people at Universidad Don Bosco continues once I get home.